Howdy!!!

[Brenda_Tx]

Well howdy everyone,
Beach sent me to this site years ago but I never posted or what ever... Just lurked about... For those that do not know me I am married legaly in Texas to Victoria... We were in the news some time back for doing it... Vicki is XXy and I am the same as Beach being XX/XY... Currently I am waiting in the LA area to see Dr. Atamede at South Bay Gynecologic Oncology because doctors in Texas suck... Last year while I was here in Long Beach I had the pleasure of meeting (and being worked on) by Dr. Jane... Wish I could find her again, however I've had no luck as of yet... I've tried to see different docs in Texas and telling them I'm a post-op transexual thinking that would work... However it did not work out so well... On the other hand telling the doctor the truth didn't work either as I was informed by Dr. Dimond that there is no such thing as a intersex person... Anyhow, BEACH come save meh in LA!!! I will be the one eating bricks!!!

[fraulein_Maria]

Currently I am waiting in the LA area

On the other hand telling the doctor the truth didn't work either as I was informed by Dr. Dimond that there is no such thing as a intersex person... Anyhow, BEACH come save meh in LA!!! I will be the one eating bricks!!!

>>> Welcome :) now, Go see Doctor Maddie. She deals with both IS and trans people and is really good at it. :) <<<

[Brenda_Tx]

Wow thanks for the quick info... After going to her site I don't think she is what I am looking for... I've been to the surgen out in Long Beach but she is no longer there... The ones I've seen in Texas will not treat me... Dr. Ellen Baker helped some however she did say that I was a bit out of the norm for what she deals in... Perhaps I will give Dr Maddie a call anyhow...

Cheers!!

[fraulein_Maria]

[QUOTE=Brenda_Tx;18601] Perhaps I will give Dr Maddie a call anyhow...

>>> at the very least she can give you a referal to someone GOOD at treating IS and trans issues, instead of the QUACKS looking to make a fast buck off of us. :)

[Brenda_Tx]

Quack... Wow you got that right... Seen so many in the past few years I thought they were all ducks... I was apart of that IS study group in Dallas that promised to help/treat me... However nothing was done other than tissue samples, questions, medical eval, ect ect... Two doctors I will warn you about are Dr. Deshmet and Dr. Diamond in Texas... Both are total quacks and inflicted emotional and physical pain on me... Also one other Dr. Hafelman, I have vaig stenosis and he FORCED his middle didgit inside of causeing great pain and sevear bleeding... Mind you he did this AFTER I told him of my medical history...

[fraulein_Maria]

[QUOTE=Brenda_Tx;18605]Quack... Wow you got that right... Seen so many in the past few years I thought they were all ducks... I was apart of that IS study group in Dallas that promised to help/treat me... However nothing was done other than tissue samples, questions, medical eval, ect ect...

>>> your not a patient to them... your a guiena pig... a lab rat. <<<

Also one other Dr. Hafelman, I have vaig stenosis and he FORCED his middle didgit inside of causeing great pain and sevear bleeding... Mind you he did this AFTER I told him of my medical history...

>>> BASTARD. there was no nurse (or female professional) present? what ever happened to the thought of using a SPECULUM or is that just too gyn for them? <<<

[Brenda_Tx]

There was a nurse there as well as Vicki... The speculum thing was to to large... He was used to treating post-op transexuals so thought the same things apply.. It would apear that he was wrong... Because of that I wound up going over seas to get a very special surgery done... On the bright side I got lots of photos to share with my fav bud Beach when he and I are both in Texas... For now he's gotta see them on myspace :).. Seriously tho it looks like I'm going to be a lab rat for just a little longer...

[fraulein_Maria]

[QUOTE=Brenda_Tx;18607]There was a nurse there as well as Vicki... The speculum thing was to to large...

>>> grrrrr. CAH gals like me with vaginal stenosis must INSIST.....

that they use a child's speculum. they will not think to (BASTARDS... and BIIIIITCH that didn't use the brain Godde gave her) but for future reference, INSIST. <<<

He was used to treating post-op transexuals so thought the same things apply.

>>> no, never. BASTARDS!!!!! <<<

[beach]

hi bren and welcome to BLO , glad to see ya here , and on the LA thing ,,,ahh sorry dear its my bizzzzzzy season , but im going to try to call vick this coming monday , btw , happy halllowwwwweeeeen ! , beach

[Brenda_Tx]

Oh I see how you are Beach, call Vicki but leave me to the dogs... Great friend you are ;)... No worries anyhow I prob won't be here... Nice to see that I can rattle your cage and you come out of the basement to frighten the normies at halloween ehehhehe... BTW I don't know if you rember Ed or not but he died at the age of 42 last year.... He was walking and trying to pick up some hot girl and the next step he was dead... Something about his brain... On that note I vote we all go down to the nude beach and throw a party for him... Me and Vicki can bring the shine, that is if the still hasn't blown up!!!

[Vicki_Tx]

Well howdy everyone,
Beach sent me to this site years ago but I never posted or what ever... Just lurked about... For those that do not know me I am married legaly in Texas to Victoria... We were in the news some time back for doing it... Vicki is XXy and I am the same as Beach being XX/XY... Currently I am waiting in the LA area to see Dr. Atamede at South Bay Gynecologic Oncology because doctors in Texas suck... Last year while I was here in Long Beach I had the pleasure of meeting (and being worked on) by Dr. Jane... Wish I could find her again, however I've had no luck as of yet... I've tried to see different docs in Texas and telling them I'm a post-op transexual thinking that would work... However it did not work out so well... On the other hand telling the doctor the truth didn't work either as I was informed by Dr. Dimond that there is no such thing as a intersex person... Anyhow, BEACH come save meh in LA!!! I will be the one eating bricks!!!

I finally got registered and here I am dearest Brenda, and hi Beach and everyone !!! Evil e-mail program put the website confirmation message in the spam folder and had to dig it out.

[fraulein_Maria]

[QUOTE=Vicki_Tx;18612]I finally got registered and here I am dearest Brenda, and hi Beach and everyone !!!

>>> welcome! :) <<<

Evil e-mail program put the website confirmation message in the spam folder and had to dig it out.

>>> arrrrgh! which one would that be? (so i can avoid it) <<<

[Vicki_Tx]

[QUOTE=Vicki_Tx;18612]I finally got registered and here I am dearest Brenda, and hi Beach and everyone !!!

>>> welcome! :) <<<

Evil e-mail program put the website confirmation message in the spam folder and had to dig it out.

>>> arrrrgh! which one would that be? (so i can avoid it) <<<

the e-mail program was yahoo mail but you do not have to worry about it because you are already registered :ARMS1: the e-mail program tries best to get rid of spam in your main folder and sometimes it does a boo boo.

[Kailana]

Sorry for posting a fair welcoming Brenda, oh and Vickie too, hey there as well. Oh and Beach, it really is unfair you know, you have been missed tons.

Brenda thanks for the chat the other day, sorry I had to go those pesky social personal issues with dating I have not had to deal with for most of my life kinda got in the way. Mind you that, dating and dealing with GF-who's ex BF, needs to talk is kinda funny dealing with. You'd think I wouldn't care about those things or worry about them, but found myself doing so, and truethfully i'm just a good friend at the moment, you know, not actually dating, just well playing around. Still though I appreciated the introduction and hope to read more, hear more about your life with Vickie.

PS.. Holler at beach, and get him to post more, he used to be very handy to have around.

[Brenda_Tx]

Beach post more often? Humm that would meen I would have to let him out of the basement more often... Rember he's into that spooky stuff so really busy at the moment methinks... Me on the other hand I've got nothing to do but wait... I did get to talk to Dr Maddie last night... She told me to call other doctors... Some that I've already talked to... Looks like if they can't/won't help me today I will have to go over seas... Mabe now Vicki get her passport, if not someone wanna come with me? I serve only the finest Acme bricks to eat!!!

[Vicki_Tx]

Beach post more often? Humm that would meen I would have to let him out of the basement more often... Rember he's into that spooky stuff so really busy at the moment methinks... Me on the other hand I've got nothing to do but wait... I did get to talk to Dr Maddie last night... She told me to call other doctors... Some that I've already talked to... Looks like if they can't/won't help me today I will have to go over seas... Mabe now Vicki get her passport, if not someone wanna come with me? I serve only the finest Acme bricks to eat!!!

I would love to get my passport and be with you Brenda, perish the thought I would not go . . I would go in a heartbeat or quicker if possible

[fraulein_Maria]

[QUOTE=Brenda_Tx;18616]Beach post more often? Humm that would meen I would have to let him out of the basement more often...

>>> LOL. :) <<<

Rember he's into that spooky stuff so really busy at the moment methinks...

>>> i thought he might have a "beautiful mind" :) <<<

She told me to call other doctors... Some that I've already talked to... Looks like if they can't/won't help me today I will have to go over seas...

>>> i'm sorry to hear that. <<<

Mabe now Vicki get her passport, if not someone wanna come with me?

>>> Passport, yes. money, no. how far over-seas do you have to go? i hear they got this place in canada that is extremely resort like. <<<

I serve only the finest Acme bricks to eat!!!

>>> *sigh* when is it gonna get through to you folks? :brick:
are for throwing... pies are for eating! :) <<<

[The Female Eunuch]

Maria wrote:>>> Passport, yes. money, no. how far over-seas do you have to go? i hear they got this place in canada that is extremely resort like. <<<

is it normal for people in the continental US to use the term 'overseas' to refer to Canada, when you don't have to go over any actual seas to get there?

In New Zealand we use the term for foreign countries all the time, though we're never sure whether it also applies to travelling between different Islands of New Zealand or not.

Caroline

[Clouds]

It's similar here in England - Wales and Scotland are definitely not overseas, but northern Ireland... hmm. not sure on that one. It's probably 'overseas' to delivery companies, but I don't suppose you'd be able to get an overseas bank account there.:dunno:

[fraulein_Maria]

[QUOTE=The Female Eunuch;18621]Maria wrote:

is it normal for people in the continental US to use the term 'overseas' to refer to Canada, when you don't have to go over any actual seas to get there?

>>> i'm originally from LI-NY.. that's Long ISLAND. so i'm used to thinking of anywhere on the mainland as overseas ;)

the ferry ride is anywhere from 45 minutes to an hour and a half... to most of the day if "the grand republic" stalls in the middle of the sound... thankfully, i think the company has retired that old barge... but if there's any wind, the ride can get rough, even on the new ones. smart travelers pick a mid-day crossing when the weather is most cooperative. <<<

[Brenda_Tx]

Well I am back from South Bay Gynecologic Oncology out in Torrance... The can and WILL help... Doc had some of my medical records on hand from Childrens Medical and called out to Long Beach Memorial for newer records... This doc is of a different set I tells ya... Nothing like his profile that is for sure... He is NOT from over seas... He is from like right here in the USA... He did admit that it was going to be hard and he would need help from a surgen out in the other side of LA... Impressed me that is for sure... Not a know it all that says one thing then can not do it... The time frame is the only thing that bothers me.. He's not talking days or weeks but a year... So I talked to Vicki about it and it seems we are now moveing to LA... So sometime today the hospital will call for me to go get a MRI... I've had one of those before... Feels like I'm being loaded into a big Navy gun getting ready to be shot out... Keep waiting to hear "All clear" BOOM... Put another shot accross her bow!! One good thing about being in the LA area I can get back with the 10th New York Zulave here... Mabe I get Beach to dress in IV Legos and take pop shots from 100 yards... Blahahhahahah... Lub ya Beach :)... Oh and about overseas, dat be anywere accross the Red River, Rio Grand, or in the Gulf of Mexico... Love live the Texas!!!

[beach]

I finally got registered and here I am dearest Brenda, and hi Beach and everyone !!! Evil e-mail program put the website confirmation message in the spam folder and had to dig it out.

hi ya toots wouldnt be so funny if , i wasnt in an IM with you right now , welcome