does being intersex ruin kids?

[Coriander]

I'm sorry, I was being too casual again in my post right above here. Sometimes I joke when I'm sad.
What I mean to say is - you are young, in school, and parenting is a serious life-long venture. I was passed around relatives when I was young and I wished I'd had a parent that really cared for me and wanted me in their life.
Even if there's only a 1% chance that you have created a child, it's worthwhile to be more careful unless you really want to have a group of children. It happens all the time that people are fertile when they think they are not.