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Anonymous
10-06-04, 11:43 PM
Hi All:

I found out I was Intersex the hard way. I just thought I was weird or actually a pervert like my family was telling me. I found out, even though all the signs were there, by showing up pregnant on a urinalysis in the military.

The discovered I was had a severe hormonal imbalance. Low and behold, they found dormant ovaries and a uterus. Later chromosome testing found that I was an XX/XY. Theorized I absorbed a twin.

I always thought I was female, even though I had dominant male organs. I have ran though the whole spectrum trying to find out who I am. I thought I was a cross dresser, then a transsexual. More stages of denial. Nothing to do with my diagnosis as a transsexual with Intersex factors.

I was finally able to put it all together from past experiences, like growing breast having everything come to a halt when I guess the testosterone kicked in. Then at the age of 27, everything started to switch back.

I lived in denial about it. I even had a child, which I thought was impossible for an Intersex person. I have learned about what myth is and what fact is. At first I was afraid, but now I have accepted myself for who I am.

Despite going through military court martial and a bitter divorce, lost employment and family and friends, I must admit, I am much happier now that I have accepted myself and I am not afraid anymore.

I am glad I found this group, just so I can relate.

Joney 8)

eminlove
10-29-04, 02:09 AM
That's a crazy story. Its so strange to hear an actual story from someone else... I'm sorry you went through that but i'm glad to hear there are others who know what this kind of stuff feels like.
i've always been a girl. I was born normal, i was normal until i was about twelve i guess, and then... not. But i've never told anyone. I'm seventeen now and i've been hiding this for five years. It has to end now, though. I fell in love with my best friend and i don't want to lose him over this. Plus i don't want to go to college knowing that i'll always have to hold back. i want to be a woman, like i've always been, like everyone has always known me to be. Its just a matter of figuring out how to do it without bringing my family crashing down around me.
thanks for telling your story. i hope we can talk.