a place to go

[bolt]

i am intersexed and miserable. i cant stand my family anymore who doesnt
undestand me. i have to go someplace else and start a new life. trouble is
i dont know where to go where i would be accepted. any suggestions?

[Kailana]

I had to post that, as i have found that people, the everyday people i meet, are very understanding. So i am still in what i call my hometown. Why, well i like it here. Its quiet, good air quality most of the time. Yes its kinda small (as a city) but overall the people are friendly.

Family needs a kick in the but other then that, i call this place home. I still meet new people, and once they get to know me find me interesting, sometimes couragous(i don't really get that part much, im just me). You know, it's quite likely that there are tons of people right where you are now, who have the compasion to comprehend who you are. Who you are is of much more importance then what you are. Some families like yours, mine, well perhaps they have there own issues with coming to understand and accept you for you. Try not to let that get you down. I know it happens, fact is, usually does with me. I have found good friends who accept me. Spend some time if you can, open up with friends and extended family. It could be that there are many people who will understand what your direct family won't.

Take care,

[peaceandparty]

excellent points there kailana!

it is miserable sometimes when we feel that family...our own family.....dont understand us

i can imagine most family members dont actually see a gender on you
they just see a child growing up or a family member

if you want a holiday in germany where the people are accepting ....then come check it out whenever you want...open invitation to come and feel free for a while

i am irish technically...so i know how to have a good time...with or without alcohol......so take me up on my offer if you would like

tell me!
what are your circumstances!?
how do you present yourself in life
and do come and check out my recent youtube videos which i think can be useful for not feeling so alone
just look for peaceandparty