Found it! Mwa ha ha ha ha
 

To all the people here who've looked at me like I was lower than some untouchable-caste (ala india) just because that despite all the medical abnormalities I still didn't have a "syndrome" to conveniently label myself with ...

Random web searching found me a medical paper for a documented medical condition that exactly matches all of the weird stuff I was born into, down to almost the last detail, except that the subject's parents decided on the "other" choice about what to do about it.

No major and extremely unlikely genetic mutations like chimerism or sry-positive XX's. Nothing that conflicts with my own case.

It's too bad there's no way to contact that other patient, whoever they are. But medical papers always conform to doctor-patient confidentiality. Luckily I can still contact the researchers who published it, they always take credit thank goodness.

My detractors can go to blazes.

Found
 

G That is great!

rock on, kinda helps to not know you're alone in the world..... btw, if you're an alien, i must be..... something, lol