[Kailana]

hello there Shortfan a few posts back you mentioned you had alot of tests done when you were 14 and were told everything was normal, have you been able to get access to those records. i know from experience that it is often hard to get those. But if your lucky it may solve alot of your problems now wondering about the what ifs. It coudl be that you allready have the answers you are looking for in your old records. Just that your parents and doctors back then told you what they told you so as not to cause any trauma. Thats pretty normal standards in case of people with intersexed conditions. I dont know if you have tried looking at your old records. But there is a possibility that answers are in there.
Oh, also wanted to say that as far as the marriage goes should you be found intersexed or what not, usually gender assigned as a child tends to stick, and you need a whole lot of work to get that changed. I am not familiar with the post Priestess mentioned earlier about the person having being forced to change there gender by the government. I wonder what state that was in or if there are still links to that article?
anyways best wishes