Although primarily for LGBT of India, the link (below this post) may offer you some respite from your plight.. Here is one resource in that website that may help : (Category III)
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meant strictly for transgendered, transsexual and intersexual persons of Asian and diasporic origins.
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There are legal and other social resources also, as well as support groups throughout India. Please try; it seems that anything would be better than what you have now.....and the people you contact/meet from this link will, most likely, be more sympathetic and understanding than the "normal" society of India.....they may also know where intersex support groups in India are.
http://www.gaybombay.org/support/groups.html
Dana