Sorry to hear that things have fizzled Kara.
I hate to say it but "Bye!" and silence are the two most common after-effects of "the talk", at least in my experience.
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I just hate having to deal with rejection over and over again for something I had no control over.
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Unfortunately we rattle the foundations of what most people take for granted and precious few people can handle that. I have been disappointed to find how terribly superficial and shallow most people are. If I care for someone, it is the spirit, the personality that attracts me and I really don't give a tinker's dam about the details of the package but it seems people who feel the same way are very rare.
One thing that I have noticed is that the longer you have known someone, the less effect disclosure has on the friendship.
At least we have our own little "community" and can appreciate each other (most of the time
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