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I can't express how terribly sad your story made me Jon. It made me sad because I have so often been in the position your lady is in and it seldom ends well. (My personal story is elsewhere on this forum.) It is impossible for anyone who was physically "normal" to begin to understand the severity of the hurt every time you are rejected by someone you care about because of a medical anomaly at birth, something over which you had no control. If she had been born with a cleft pallet, would you stop loving her when you found out?
You fell in love with a real live person, someone who obviously has characteristics that matter to you. If the circumstances of her birth and her childhood lessen the love you feel for her then you need to look inside yourself, not on the Internet, for the answers.
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