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I have learned enough in the last few days about this to say that it is not likely at all I will be moving on from this women. I am going to stay with her.
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In the end, it is often our feelings that matter the most in critical decision making issues, not others; although the responses that you did get here and your consequent soul searching seems to have been of some benefit after all. It would seem that you are a sincere and kind-hearted man; your confusion and other feelings are quite natural given the circumstances......I'm sure your girlfriend is going through a similar phase, seeking "guidance" from the places and people she has chosen to share her situation. May I ask, please, is she willing to reciprocate on your commitment to her? It would be nice to have both of you experience a mutual love; the proverbial "happy ending", although you must know that there will be challenges ahead for both of you...."societal issues" and the like. I wish you the best; take care and thank you for visiting this site and sharing your concerns.
PS: May I ask, why do you refer to her as 'women' (plural) and not a woman? I'm hoping curiosity doesn't "kill" this cat (me).
Dana