Since when are you the judge of who can or cannot take part in this thread or others? How about intersex (or DSD, if one wishes to remain "politically correct") peoples that do transition....are they now not any more intersex or DSD and just a forking transsexual?, as you imply....since this man's girlfriend falls into that category. You have posted less than a dozen times and you yourself are laying claim to being intersex and yet you are not sure of that, either. BLO, in the years I have been here has always respected and welcomed intersex, allies and friends. Read the Bodies Like Ours Community Guidelines....You feel violated?????....how about those you may be insulting and rejecting....like me!...who has "been through the shit" of living with a DSD from early childhood and now see trans-bashing from a "not sure" intersex person.....I feel violated.