[Kailana]

Misae please becarefull, as i am assuming the phone call was with parents? at least i really hope it was with your parents rather then your sister.

You might want to give your parents time too, or just wait a bit longer. Maybe not tell your sister untill you hear that she is going to dr to find out whats going on. That might be the time to talk with your sister.

Im really not sure how much other advise i can off, as i really don't know your family. I do hope that amongst all the things i say you take time to think about this for yourself. I guess what i am saying is that my own personal beliefs put me in an open, position, i care much more for honesty. And am very angry over secrets being kept from me. That is my history, by ethics,, my beliefs, others are not so judgemental, and well honestly not as angry about what has been done to them.

please take care. Best wishes.
ps you can always send a pm if u want a little more privacy.