Hello LuckyMom
There used to be a supportgroup for parents of a child with »Mixed Gonadal Dysgenesis«
You could try
http://www.xyxo.org/
or
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group...syndrome_xyxo/
From what I've heard from parents, hypospadias-repair on infants is ususally not succesful and has to be repeated many times.