i have only read the first few lines so far
but
this point please:
-men find it much more difficult many more times than women
(if we live in a world that only has male and female in it)
to do and be and express the things that women can be accepted doing
and he says he feels intersexed
?
he needs to build confidence slowly
you now can support him
show him this site
and others like xxytalk.com
and he can go to mine...
www.xxwise.freeforums.org
he can go to youtube :peaceandparty
and he can start to relate to many of us
he sounds as if he has had no-one really who has understood him long enough
intersexed does not necessarily mean that he wants to change sex.....he just wants to be able to express himself without being labelled too much
i totally understand right now
but please tell me more
also my email is
i think i am easy to talk to on there!
maybe ask others
but i am available to talk here or in private for you or him!