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Old 07-17-07, 10:00 PM
Kailana Kailana is offline
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My apologies, cause that was probably me

Jos, Miriam, i want to say that i am sorry, that part there about someone posting where they would prefer to be CAIS rather xy/xo, that was probably me. I had intended for that comment to reflect how i believe i would be a great deal happier as i Identify as a female. But with a body(phenotype) of male, most people only see me as a man. I didnt mean to hint or conclude that CAIS was any easier to cope with. Or that it or any other condition was easier on the Psyche then the one, or several that i have. Each has its up and downs. In a way i suppose if I had Identified as a man, then my condition would suit me just fine. In a way, that thought, the miscommunication on my end, has offended several people, i had not intended it to do so. Now then i am sure this post will upset someone too, ill apologies again. that was not my intent. In a way, this thinking on my end, does fit the normal stereotypical thought of MTF, FTM, you know, wanting to look like the gender that you think of yourself as would seem to be easier but it can also have its own pitfalls, without knowing what it is actually like, I or others can misquote or miscomprehend what is actually being said. Thank you Jos for mentioning what you thought about the clip, and your comment too.

I'll try to not make such a huge guffaw, mistake, my apologies again.
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