
What surgeries have you had? Are you PAIS? or CAIS? If you're CAIS, with a blind, short vagina, I would shy away from anything that alters your genitals surgically since the sensitivity in those areas tends to decrease. I never had a vaginoplasty since my doctor (thank God) explained that I could stretch it to accomodate intercourse...and it worked! I've been doing it just fine ever since...although if I go too long without, I have to re-stretch...however, that can be fun! .
Take care though...obviously, as you know, everybody's body is different and works differently...Do you have pain during intercourse? If so, make whoever your with do more foreplay. I completely serious...also, invest in a good silicone lubricant.
Hope this was helpful...
Marianne