I was born intersex decades ago(30 years old) in an African country where such conditions are treated in high level of secrecy to avoid stigmatization. Certain medical reconstruction at birth confers on me a female phenotype but I feel masculine within. I grew up being a lesbian, which is criminalized with 14 years imprisonment and/or death in my country, so I have lived a very discreet,lonely, and miserable life hitherto. I stumbled on reality of people living happily with this conditions abroad sometimes not long and I am willing to meet people of same condition for friendship around the globe regardless of the race and colour. Infact, I desire a relationship/engagement to lead a normal life with someone that understand how my body and life is to save me those embarrassing moments of explanation, deceit and lies to whom is not familiar with such conditions. I can be reached via