The impetus behind this action
was Bodies Like Ours being leaked an internal announcement from
the hospital regarding the presentation, "Feminizing Genitoplasty
and Total Urogenital Mobilization" at University of Connecticut
Medical School Grand Rounds for CME credits on Thursday, September
25th. The presenter, Dr. Richard Rink of Indiana University School
of Medicine, would then be conducting a "Total Urogenital Sinus
Surgical Procedure" Friday morning which could be viewed "from
a designated area within CCMC". The announcement was brought
to our attention the Saturday before this mutilation was scheduled
Over the course of just a few days,
we were able to mobilize our allies into joining us in protest against
Rink's appearance. Our successes were many: the hospital went from
ignoring us early in the week to inviting us in for a future date
to share the adult survivor perspective. Dr. Rink cancelled his
appearance due to the publicity surrounding our plans. Finally,
we made the front page of the Hartford Courant that morning with
a well-written article about intersexuality.
We also learned much. We learned
how to quickly and effectively mobilize our local allies for their
support, and we learned even grassroots protests take more money
than our shoe string budget can afford. We've been approached by
more than a few constituents who would like to see similar actions
at their local hospitals, but unless we can raise the funds to help,
we simply won't be able to. There's important work to be done but
not all of it can be done cheaply or for free.
We understand how many worthy causes
are in need of funding right now. As individual donors, we are also
aware of how difficult it is to choose among the organizations that
approach us. Intersex genital mutilation may not be at the top of
your priority list, but we ask that it appear somewhere and that
you donate whatever you can to help us end the shame, secrecy and
isolation one out of every 2,000 people suffer from. We're asking
because Bodies Like Ours has evolved as a leader in educating about
intersex patient rights and intersex peer support but try as we
might, we can't do it for free.
Our Connecticut allies invested their time
and energy into making this event a success, and now we
would like to ask you to make a financial investment in the important
work of intersex advocacy and peer support. A donation now, whether
large or small, can help support similar actions in the future when
the need arises. Many of our supporters came through for us on an
emergency basis last week (if you are one of them, thank-you and
watch your mailbox soon for a small gratitude of our appreciation)
but we still need more help. You
can make an immediate donation securely online. Information about
mailing or phoning in a tax-deductible donation may also be found
on that page.
Our constituents want it to happen
again, and with your financial support, Bodies Like Ours can make
it happen for them. While our primary mission is peer support, we
feel that opportunities like the one given us in Hartford is another
part of our important work.
There were many other valuable lessons
we learned on the fly in a few hectic and exhausting days. We learned
that it takes only one brave, concerned person to start a freight
train rolling. We also learned is that these Educational Demonstrations
are a great way to reach healthcare providers and, equally importantly,
the general public. We learned that only about half the people intending
to show up with a sign actually do, but that the half that were
there made an impression, educated strangers, and made a difference.
We re-learned the importance of what one good reporter can accomplish
by writing an article that gets it right without sensationalizing
the obvious, and smart editors can make their morning readers choke
on their coffee when our issue is put on their front page. Most
importantly, we learned that open discussions with hospital administrators,
even in an adversarial atmosphere, can lead to an invitation to
present our case inside their building and we are expecting an invitation
to speak at CCMC/UConn in the very near future.
To read the Hartford Courant news
article, please
click here.
Thanks again to all of our supporters,
both old and new, for getting behind us and this important action
last Friday in Hartford. We are looking forward to the next educational
demonstration, wherever and whenever it is needed.
We also have our hands full with
upcoming speaking events around the country, but mostly on the east
coast. There are simply too many list here but a couple of the highlights
include Betsy Driver delivering the closing plenary at the Transcending
Boundaries Conference next month at Umass Amherst and Bodies Like
Ours Co-founder, Janet Green, will be a guest lecturer for Master's
level counseling students in a Gender Issues in Counseling course
at Rider University in NJ. Please
visit our events page for a full listing that changes often.
Bodies Like Ours Board of Directors,
Janet Green
Dr. Nina Williams, PsyD
Deb Hartman
DaleLynn Sims
Betsy Driver