[quote=miriam;12395]
@ fraulein_Maria: Actually, the girls are not 13 yo. The girls on the front page of the Dutch AISSG website are between 15 and 20 years old:
>>> miriam, i was talking about the yahoogroup. and you've gone to the meeting in the USA... there kids. just kids. beautiful kids. i have a ten year old daughter. she doesn't have AIS. she has been virilized, so she just might take after 3-beta CAH lil' ole me.
there are men with CAH. they have there own support groups. i'm glad they have there own, and don't seek to invade mine. Although i am unashamed of who and what i am......
i have no right to expect that others not be.
That's something i can hope for. I can help others work towards that.
But expect? no. Especially not the kids...
Kids.... Tis the nature of adolecense to be self-conscious anyway...
To feel "freakish" and embarrassed by the changes that are occuring (or not occuring) and of course parents just don't understand!
I can tolerate a man in my locker room.....
But the minute he walks into my daughter's, as a parent, i have a problem with that.
Call me sexist. Call me transphobic. But i don't know a good parent out there who doesn't have the same problem.