[short311fan]

neko: they do sometimes if i don't keep the sorry excuse for chin-fuzz, lol, gets a bit awkward.....

priestess: yeah, i know, and that bothers me a lot, knowing that the government can do that..... it's so wrong, it absolutely tears me up to even think it..... but, i'm hoping for the best here, which is that i'm concerned over a whole lot of nothing, that i'm completely wasting my time, and that there's nothing going on..... as far as my parents go, i'm probably not even going to really bring it up, they're both older (mid-60's) and not in the greatest of health themselves, and i don't want to stress them out or hold anything over their heads..... as far as the government actually changing my legal gender, like i said, it tears me up to know that it can happen, but at the same time, if that's what i am, i have to accept that and deal with that..... easier said than done, for sure, but nonetheless, if that's what i am, then that's what i am, and i'm ready for that..... as far as living under an illegal same-sex marriage, it kills me that there isn't some provision in the laws on that so if someone comes up with an intersex "condition" after being married that it would stand as is due to them not knowing prior..... either way, thankfully i have good insurance that would still cover my wife, lol