don't blame her
Might it be possible that something has influenced her to where she is hurting also, and afraid to tell you the reason why....perhaps she is sorting this out and doesn't know how to manage it, afraid of hurting you. Better to hurt with silence (or a lie) than the truth...which may be much worse and cause greater damage; The sort of thing people do at times when close to each other.
Just my thoughts and feelings on the matter; I am only "guessing".
Dana
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