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Originally Posted by Rycharde
I'm sorry I dismissed her. But she was VERY rude to me before. I know she is just trying to shoo me off.
I know she thinks I'm just a messed up tranny and I know your experiences with transsexuals being rude to people who are IS. I know Miriam feels this way about me and I know I will never change her mind.
She has insulted me and called me wicked names and I won't hear anything from her.
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Rycharde I am listening to you, and I am making a real effort to understand how you feel. I mean only good toward you. I am not condemning you. I am just trying to clue you. So be a big boy and listen and learn on this one.
... pause ..... gone reading for minute ....
I just went and read your thread, "Just Stumbled In", and I have a few words for you.
I am very sympathetic to Miriam regarding your previous argument with her. You do seem unwilling to listen, and you appear unwilling to consider the perspectives offered by others. She asked you a very good question before, and you just blew her off! That is very provocative, insulting - fightin werds - as it were. Get my drift on that?
She asked you this gem of a question.
"Why do you want me to share that I have XY chromosomes .... with e.g. [for example]
an immigration officer .... if you don't want to share what's in your pants with the guy that sells you porn/smokes/beer etc?"
That is a great question, not just a good one, and it is also a fair question deserving a fair answer Rycharde.
Yet in response you did nothing but whine like a baby, wrongly claiming victim status, and then you made stupid sexist remarks in your weak attempt to belittle her. You only succeeded in making yourself look small however.
Here is some of what you said to her.
"I'm digging for answers, just like you were at one point in your life and just because I've kicked up a little dust and gotten your dress soiled a little gives you no right to sling hateful or cruel words at anyone.
You might think to be miss high and mighty because you have this and that and have solidly fit yourself into a normal gender role in society dispite your challenges but there are some of us who accept that we don't have to."
That is just plain wrong.
If you equate making childish, rude, asinine sexist remarks trying to belittle women, with manliness, then ..... well, .... suffice it to say that nobody is stupid enough to mistake that sort of insecurity driven bluster for macho, ..... and you shouldn't either.
I know you are scared right now, and frustrated, but you need to GET A FRIGGING GRIP DUDE. You have a long way to go, and you cannot get there the way you are going.
I suggest that you also begin, right frigging NOW, to work very hard to find out what your problem with women is.
You should apologize to Miriam. You wont even begin to earn my respect until you do.