Feel free to write as much as as little as you wish!
I am glad you have one identity that you are clearly more comfortable with - I think that makes things easier. Being 50/50 (I think) would be tough.
My story is elsewhere on this site but the nuts & bolts of it is that I was somewhere between M & F at birth (physically probably more incomplete male) and was assigned male and adopted out. Unfortunately I never identified as male so the harsh attempts to make me "act like a man" only served to crush my spirit. I knew there was something wrong physically when I hit my teens and started developing both ways (but not a lot of either) but was mentally most decidedly FEMALE. I wasn't allowed any medical investigation (my parents already knew what was wrong) and no medical treatment until I cut out when I came of legal age 30+ years ago. Being able to "stop acting" and just be myself was a god-send - like being liberated from a death camp!
I don't know (medically) what the details were - they didn't have a lot of tests back then - I just told them to "snip and stitch" and make it as good as they could - details never mattered, just results (WOOHOO!)
Anyway Lisa, I look forward to your next instalment
