Yeah, ok I see your point (or at least I think I do), we've all had different experiences.
I guess I was just wondering on what evidence doctors are basing their views that a babies sex must be chosen for them as early as possible or else terrible psychological consequences will ensue... did you see
http://www.channel4.com/health/micro..._intersex.html
One parent was raising her two AIS children as intersex rather than trying to enforce a choice of one or the other..... but as you said each of us is different and I shouldn't have been so flippent