When do you tell?

[Dana Gold]

Although I will not retract or delete the above post, I wish to, nevertheless, apologize for that rant, as I have not followed the Guidelines I mentioned by an apparently to be recognized "flame" of another member. It seems that having been through the experience of living with an intersex (or DSD, as some would prefer) and then "transitioning" (an "overlapping issue?) later or earlier in life somehow "brands" the person who does such as a "T interloper", as once was remarked in a much earlier thread....one who hence would be cursed by (some) other intersex or DSD folk who may have had a bad experience with or somehow gained a negative impression of trans folk. How sad......it's bad enough the "normals" to have shat upon such folk...and then to have it happen from those you least expect it....or as this quote points out:

those who do not really have overlapping issues, will be either unable or unwilling to understand

..... it is to be expected...oh, well........life is difficult on forking planet Earth...the subject of this thread: When do you tell is more about who do you tell.....best way is to keep to oneself...to hell with love, relationships etc....just an invitation to more "slaps in the face", pain and misery...especially if you have "gender identity and social adjustment issues"