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09-22-07, 02:00 AM
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PAIS 23-year old leading a confusing life in Indonesia
Hi everyone! Pleased to meetcha! I mean, *really* pleased! Whew!
I'm really happy to finally join this forum. At last, a place to talk about my problems with people who really know what it's like to be intersexed. Let me tell you, there is a dearth of understanding people in my country. What with the religious extremism and general malice towards alternative genders-- let me tell you, it is not easy to live here and admit your intersexuality. Some physical facts: Since I'm type-III PAIS, I have gynecomastia, underdeveloped genitals, little bodily and facial hair, an entirely female voice, and a rather ambiguous facial structure. Depends on how I part my hair, people either call me "Miss" or "Sir". Which sounds like fun but is rather more of a hassle, really. My mental gender has been determined by a psychiatrist, Dr. Arman of the MMC Hospital in Jakarta, as mostly female. But my sexual orientation can only be described as "I like girls. I like girls. I like girls." In fact, the reason I finally joined BOL is that I recently split up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years because of my intersexual condition. I really need someone to talk to, and I just realized that no one I know really understands how I feel--no one I know is intersexed. Hopefully that would change soon! Salam Kenal (Indonesian introductory greetings), Pandu Winata Sastrowardoyo or Pandu Wisaksono Sastrowardoyo 
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09-22-07, 11:34 AM
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Another Indonesian?
Hey there. . . Did u just speak Indonesian? Are you an Indonesian as well, or is there an alternative explanation?
 Anyway. . . Terima Kasih Banyak for welcoming me!!! Last edited by panduwinata : 09-22-07 at 11:37 AM. Reason: forgot the signoff
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09-22-07, 12:48 PM
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Is this a dumb question?
This is me. This is also me. While this is me as a male. But how do I use one of these images as my Avatar? Someone, please help!  Whoops. . . it *was* a dumb question. never mind, people! Pleased to meetcha! Hope to make friends! Last edited by panduwinata : 09-22-07 at 01:17 PM. Reason: not enough pix ;)
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09-25-07, 07:40 PM
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Sorry if I mislead you
No I'm not Indonesian.
I did have a brief holiday romance with a boy from Bali. We tried to write to each other a few times but his English and my Indonesian were both pretty bad! I didn't intend to mislead you.  JOS
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#6
09-25-07, 07:54 PM
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Ooooh. . . Bali boys, huh?
I've been to Bali hundreds of times. . . I wonder if we've met? Don't worry Jos, you didn't mislead me or anything. I'm just happy someone's taken the time to study my little old language!Anda hebat! Pandu W
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