Hello, My name is Julanne. i'm thirty four I live in Boston and i learned by accident that I was intersexed. I am happy with my choice of gender even t it was a tough road. I must say that each intersexed child has its own unique problem and each one must be treated diffrently. The surgrey will work for some, but not for others. I think there are good doctors and bad doctors. A good doctor will make the right choice for the child, a bad doctor won't. I was very lucky, I think that I never knew a thing about my true genitic sex untill I was a adult. I never even knew that my parts were any diffrent untill I saw my birth pictures. I was lucky that I passed through the hands of a skilled surgen who left my sexualy senstvity intact. :D Are there any intersexed people who have been happy with the choice that was made for them?
I also was very hyperactive. any other intersexed people have that problem? by the way, I was a boy without a penus. I only had a stump. It was very featurless. nothing to look at. Had they not changed my sex, I wouldn't of even been able to go into the boys room. I peed from under my teste. the teste was removed before the critical period and I femmized very well, Know one can ever tell that I had a (many) operations unless I tell them. I love sex, although my orentatin is woman. Funny I don't see myself as gay at all but intersexed! Yes the surgrey was trumatic. But so woundn't being a castrated in the womb man!! And God know what would of happend if they had to remove my tese anyway becacuse of cancer or bladder infections. I had a connection between my bladder and semial vesticals that was giving me painfull infeactions as a child. I can' t ever want to be anybody other then who i turned out and why i turned out to be who I am.
do any other intersexed people feel that way????

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You really have to love yourself, to get anything done in this world!

Julanne