I have been reading the various mail on this site usually 2 to 3 times a day, and keep running into the same thing. A lot of "What are you"?

I do not intend to harm or offend anyone, but I have to say this.

If we were all attending a BBQ, I don't think we would be standing around asking each other to open our shirts or zippers to identify each other while eating a cheeseburger and potato salad.

The fact that we all attended the BBQ and were indeed invited is enough to establish what's already known.

Since I originally established myself when I became a member of this website I feel is enough. Now ask me about my job, how's my life going or even how I've managed my life is fine, but I don't feel the need to keep defining my gender.

Now there may be some that have personal interest in another, and if it blooms into something for them, wonderful. We all need to love, and be loved. The gender differences might then become a factor.

Again, I don't wish to offend anyone. I just appreciate the invitation to meet friends at Betsy's BBQ.

My BBQ???? Huh?

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Phil,

I totally agree with you. Let's stop this drawing of lines between us because of our differences, and let's stop forcing each other to show proof of our Intersexness. We should come together on a common ground.

Thanks for sharing Phil.

Hugs,
CR

LOL...I get it now! It took me awhile. Phil, you're too funny :p

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Sounds like a party ,
I need some sun , lol ,
I will bring some ribs and hamburgers ,
" What time Betsy ? "

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