Hi,

I just had my first sexual experanice with a girl last night and would like to know since I had a clitoplasty done. Would I also have pain every so many sec when clit is being stimulated?

I also was very shacky and my girlfrined asked if I was ok. I wsn't scared , but I didn't know how to explain it to her.

Karen

Hi Karen,

Sometimes when a clitoral recession is done, it results in alot of pain when you become aroused. Did you ever get your med records that explained what surgeries you had done when you were a child? A clitoral recession is when they push the clitoral tissue up inside of you and then surgically tie it in and down, I don't know that it pertains to your situation but it sounds like that may be the case.

As far as being shakey and nervous---just be yourself. It can be hard, but it's really the best thing to do when meeting and becoming intimate with others.

Betsy

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