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Intersexuality
and Marriage for Gays and Lesbians
As
the debate over marriage for gays and lesbians grows,
many within the intersex community are watching it with a mix of anticipation
and dread. While many within the intersex community identify as gay,
lesbian or bisexual, many others identify as heterosexual and may
believe the issue doesn't affect them. While we all hope that is the
case, it may very possibly affect the entire intersex community with
unintended consequences if we are not cautious and proactive in this
debate.
One
of the big unknowns in this debate is how one man-one
woman for the sake of marriage will be defined in any legislation
that will be introduced seeking to bar marriage for gays and lesbians.
At this point, this little, yet significant detail has not yet been
discussed.
There
is fear that any language seeking to define male and
female will be taken from Littleton v Prange, Texas Appellate Court,
1999. This judgment upheld the decision of a lower court that trans
woman Christie Lee Littleton was legally male, and that her marriage
to her late husband had been invalid. As with the UK's landmark
Corbett v. Corbett case in 1970, this case was sparked by property
issues: Littleton had sued doctors for malpractice following the
death of her husband. The doctors responded by claiming that she
was legally male and as such could not be the surviving spouse of
a man and the Court upheld their claim, relying upon a chromosomal
test and explicitly referring back to Corbett. (from PFC.org.uk)
If
any constitutional amendments attempt to use Littleton
and thus chromosomal tests as the marker for male and female, the
intersex community could be severely affected. This is especially
true for members of the intersex community who consider themselves
heterosexual:
- A woman with
AIS could be prohibited from marrying her male (XY) partner because
it would result in the marriage of two XY individuals
- Someone born
XXXY, or any other variation of mosaicism can't legally say male
or female, if male and female is legally defined to be XY and
XX
- An XY person
born with micropenis underwent nonconsensual sex reassignment
surgery as an infant and is reared as female. Eventually she meets
a man and want to get married, but both are genetically XY. Or,
she identifies as a lesbian. Will they be allowed marriage because
it is then an XX and XY pairing? If this person should transition
back to his birth gender, things could get even more confusing
- Parents who
think that genital surgeries are for the good of their child (because
that is what they have been told) may later find out that more
than the child's genitals have been mutilated. That person's desire
for marriage may be denied as a result of childhood surgery and
gender of rearing if different from genetic sex or there are any
chromosomal variations from standard XX and XY
- The flipside of all this is if they try to use
Littleton as the basis for defining one man - one woman, intersex
people with variant chromosomal makeup and who identify as gay
or lesbian could theoretically get legally married.
These
are just a few simple examples about theoretical outcomes
if a constitutional amendment attempts to define one man/one woman
for the sake of heterosexual marriage. No matter your stand on the
exploding debate, it's an issue that we need to be concerned with.
The entire intersex
community needs to be proactive in writing and calling our legislators
and asking them how they define male and female. Engage them and
explain that not every one falls into a neat binary.
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